The Most Expensive Year of my life & that’s fine…

Hey everyone, hope you are all doing well and have made the most of the festive break and had some much needed downtime for those of us still wage slaving around the Christmas tree 🎄 ! 

2024 – The Year of spending Money!

I did question whether I should even post this at first as in some ways I really don’t want to be posting to the internet talking about how I have spent loads of money on things I didn’t ‘NEED’ to but then again, this is a safe space with mostly fellow FI pursuit type folk and it’s no different from posting my FI stash figure which is also not something I would talk about with people I know in so called real life.

So now I know I am amongst friends, I can continue. This year without doubt has been the most expensive year of my life so far!

The return of the Gangster?


What exactly did I spend my hard earned money on – sacrificing a higher future stash amount for… what justified such a future opportunity loss?

Well I have been eating caviar at Michelin star restaurants. I have switched to top end designer clothes as it really makes me feel like I have achieved success at life. It elevates me to feeling like I exist at a higher level than people who wear clothes without high end brand names or god forbid no brand names!  I have been buying all sorts of jewellery, the bigger the gold chain the better I say. I have been buying things without even thinking of discount codes or money off savings. I don’t need to save money on things after all, I can afford things at full price and this should be how you judge success. You won’t catch me scouring the internet for voucher codes anymore, I am a changed man, a better man!

Jokes aside, I have been spending an awful lot of money for me this year but not on any of that stuff…


So what have I been buying?


New Car

I’ll start with the big one…a brand new car 🚗. I had my previous car for 12 years and it was on around 130,000 miles. I had been saving for around a year to put towards a new car and I sold some investments to help with the purchase. I want this to last me until I reach FI and hopefully it will be one of my last major eye watering for me level costs barring future house work.

Florida Holiday

This was the most expensive holiday I have had to date. My partner had always wanted to go and for me it was a dream holiday. We had two weeks in Orlando and we got to see all the parks, meet Mickey Mouse, shoot guns, hold a baby alligator called Fluffy, witness a major hurricane, and even got to see a space rocket launch at the NASA Kennedy Space centre. It was simply an amazing experience from start to finish.


Phone, smart watch, PC

2024 was the year of new tech for me. I bought a new phone, smart watch and built a PC. My phone was 4 years old at the time and I haven’t had a PC in over a decade but I wanted to build one and use it for VR & normal PC games as well as many other activities. It was going to hopefully become a bit of a hobby and play thing of mine so felt it was well worth it. I bought the smart watch to compliment my new phone. I do like tech stuff after all!

Lots of weekend, overnight stays and gifting

Over the past few years, my spending on going out and stopping over on city breaks had increased but this year it really went through the roof. I have stopped in hotels away more than 10 times throughout the year and even managed to fit in a trip to Amsterdam again earlier in the year. Most of these stays were just single nights away but they certainly added up to more than in previous years.

Then finally comes the gifting category of expenses. I really have spent a lot on my partner and close family/friends this year. I have been more generous with my gifts when it comes to birthdays and occasions and also just have spent small amounts more frequently in between. I must say from my own experience that spending money on others really can be a way to buy happiness so to speak. This is not about buying just physical stuff either, it’s experiences or stuff that then creates experiences. It’s just happened without deliberate thought, it was only after recently viewing my gifts category expenditure throughout the year that I realised it’s the highest it’s ever been so it’s worth singling out here too.


When is it ok to spend big?

So when is it ok to spend as much money as I have this year? What I tend to use to determine if I should spend big on experience and purchases is the following considerations:

When spending any money under big expenses, you must ensure the following:

For example, I had been thinking of getting a new car for around 18 months and waited a good year before finally purchasing the car I wanted when I had saved a decent amount towards it. I made sure to wait for the right car at the right time and even managed to save £6,000 on it via my works discount scheme. I wanted a new car as mine was getting expensive and created worry each time the MOT date came around. It had done me really well over the 12 years and I owed it nothing. I consider the new car a good investment, it’s not a Mercedes or BMW but it is a very nice car with lots of technology and I am very happy with it!

When looking at the Florida holiday purchase. This really was a dream holiday which created several months of joyful anticipation and turned out to be even better than I had hoped. It has also created memories that will last a lifetime and for me was worth every single penny.  

The new phone, PC and smart watch are things that I really enjoy having. I do like some of the latest technology but whenever I get something like a new phone, I am happy to keep it for 3-5 years. This was just around the time where I would normally replace my phone but I did throw in the smart watch (only for health tracking features of course!). The PC did give me more back and forth moments on whether I really should get it though. I think in the end it did feel like a bit of a reward for reaching the half way line to FI, a major milestone and to mark 10 years of being on this FI journey. I really enjoyed building it and have not played my PS5 quite as much since I got it! It is also nice to be a bit more of a power user again – having something other than just a tablet and a phone again at last.

The last expenditure being a bunch of trips away and increased gifting are a clear yes to me and gave me no pause for thought. These trips and gifting have brought me a lot of joy this year.

I think when it comes down to it though, this year is very unlikely to be repeated at such relative extremes. A lot of these purchases have coincided with me reaching the half way line and also feeling a little bit like life is too short. This was a big reason for the Florida trip being this year instead of in the future. I did NEED a new car in my own opinion but this also still felt a little bit like a reward in terms of the car that I chose – no regrets at all though.

One of the key things for me that made these choices easier was that they did not result in any deprivation in other expenditures. I did not have to be careful with money and it would not really alter my FI within 10 years goal, this brings me nicely onto my final point and really what made me most comfortable with spending so much money.


Good enough & the gradient of success


What does £633,000 versus £671,000 really mean in the grand scheme of things if I am already happy with the general £600,000 target. If I end up with £671,000 but I have lived the next 10 years feeling deprived versus spending money on more activities and things that bring joy but as a result end up with £633,000. Will this difference really mean anything? I already am being very careful with my FI planning and with having a public pension providing a Full safety net at 68+ results in less fear of SWRs holding steady. I also already have some buffer included in my planned monthly post FI amounts so I can spend less in times of downturns should I need to.

Do I really need to care about the exact number with this in mind? Can I not loosen up a little and spend where it really improves life in the here and now? I would not have been able to spend anywhere near as much as I have this year 5 years or so ago, I have long since abandoned very lean FI numbers like some of my fellow FI UK bloggers have.

If I can achieve FI around the age of of 47-50 with my safety nets in operation, without the need to even 100% retire at that point should I not want to. Can I just be content with the general goal still being reachable and being achievable rather than being so desperate to reach it at 47 exactly to the month with an exact figure to the pound in mind?

It’s important to say and reiterate that all of my above purchases and decisions are relevant to me  only and there is of course no right or wrong in what brings others joy, or what counts as feeling deprived. If you get immense joy from driving a Mercedes or never going on holidays but instead doing other things then that’s obviously great too. 😀

Love to hear your thoughts as always!

TFJ

Mini Sep 2023 Update – £250,000 Base FI Reached & Covid 2 – The Reckoning!

Hey everyone, hope you are all well. I just wanted to do a quick mini update on some good news this month!


£250,000 Base FI Target Hit!!!


I unexpectedly reached £250,000 in my portfolio whilst I was away in Ireland. I did this on Saturday 16th September, a date which will hopefully stay burnt in my mind now for a long time… well I added it to my calendar in case I did forget when it happened! I was sitting on my hotel bed whilst my partner was still getting ready to go out. There I was happily doing some of my finances where I still record what I spend and I thought I would go check my balances as I had heard there was a bit of a growth spurt in some markets recently. I logged on and to my utter shock, there it was – £250,854.13 was the new total!

I had an amazing feeling of excitement and joy for at least 15 minutes where I couldn’t stop smiling and I guess I was just in a bit of disbelief too that I had reached that milestone as I kept saying to myself ‘I can’t believe it…’. It was such a major symbolic target, it was after all my original Target FI amount which I have long since abandoned but it was still no doubt a major success to me personally. It kind of secured a base FI at 4% where all my bills were paid for, for the next 20 years or so, it felt pretty major to me as I had been aiming for it for 9 years – when I first started my pursuit of FI. It had come only 9 months later than hoped for after my Project 2235 but that wasn’t bad considering the bear market we have had for a while now.

On that night, I thought I would have an extra mini celebration but I didn’t want to make it all about that achievement as we were on holiday in Ireland after all and it wasn’t about my target being hit. I knew I would need to plan something separate to actually mark it properly but it did make the night that bit better! Walking to the hotel in the heavy rain getting soaked after coming back from Bad Bobs in Temple bar at 2am couldn’t take away my frequently occurring smile! I had done it, my god I had actually gone and done it!!!

Celebration plans


So when I got back from Ireland, I planned a lovely night stay in Liverpool at a hotel with a jacuzzi hot tub (was an amazing deal), some wine and and evening of partying to mark hitting £250,000. I had to say the number again, as it just sounds amazing still. It’s odd because that’s the amount most scratch card top winnings would be and that’s what I’ve essentially got…still makes me smile widely in gratitude for where I am, still pinching myself really. This will wear off I know…I am making the most of it for now while it lasts!


Covid 2 – The Reckoning


I started to feel rough not long after I returned from Ireland and I had a really bad sore throat and weakness on the second night back. The following day I was much worse and I did a Covid test just to check which of course was positive! I am not surprised with how much it’s going round at the moment and I had of course been close to hundreds of people whilst in Dublin so it was almost inevitable I guess, you were like sardines in some pubs.

It has affected me quite badly this time and I have even had delirium and confusion in the first couple of nights. The headaches, fatigue, cough and watery eyes have been very hard to deal with at the same time. This is real man Flu territory! I have had to take three days off work even though I can work from home and I haven’t been off work in years…

You probably guessed it, I have had to cancel my celebration plans as a result and I couldn’t get the same deal for alternative dates unfortunately so I’ve had to make some slight changes but it will still happen and I will report back in my next update how it all went! I have thrown crazy golf into the mix on the day we come back as well for a bit of fun.

So, How did you mark any major milestones along the FI path, did you just have a few beers and a takeaway? A trip to Paris? Do nothing and just carry on?

Love to hear your thoughts as always. Thanks for reading!

TFJ 

Operation Project 2235 – £250,000 Target – The Conclusion & Review

Hey all, I hope everyone is keeping well and that you are ready for the Christmas festivities to begin. It’s that time again where a blog post update is due and it’s certainly one I have been looking forward to writing! 

Operation Project 2235 

Just as a reminder, 3 years ago in the following post – I set myself the ambitious but I thought realistic challenge of investing £1500 a month for 3 years. This would amount to investing a total of £54,000 which would of seemed laughably impossible only a few years earlier. I had worked out through compound interest calculators that If I could invest this amount and I then assumed 5% growth over the next 3 years on average – I would be able to hopefully hit the magical milestone of a portfolio value totalling £250,000.

Success Criteria

I set out for this challenge certain success criteria because it wasn’t just purely about saving the £1500 each month. It had to be done in a way that did not take the joy out of living during the three years by depriving myself and had to also be realistic so unexpected outgoings were assumed during these years and needed to be budgeted for. This would mean still having a cash buffer, unexpected outgoings fund, big expenses fund and enough disposable income each month to fund the merriment of life. 

As for the £250,000 Target itself – this was going to only be possible with a supportive fair wind and indeed luck to an extent as there was no way to predict what the market would do over the short time horizon of 3 years especially after such a long bull run. I did not want to limit my perceived success of this goal to purely market conditions uncontrollable by me so I chose upfront not to make that number part of the success criteria.

So in summary, I had to:

  • Invest £54000 over the next 3 years (£1500 a month)
  • Not deprive myself along the way (Enjoy the three years)
  • Be able to withstand unexpected outgoings along the way with no selling of any investments


The Review


As the three years for this challenge have now come to an end,  it’s time to review my progress against the previously outlined success criteria. It’s hard to believe in some ways that this has come around so fast but then again a lot has happened during these three years not least of all a global pandemic and I have done lots of things so it’s been fairly jam packed for me with lots of life changes to boot. Let’s get straight into it and see how I did!

Success Criteria 1 – Invest £54,000 (£1500 a month)

Well…This is a very easy criteria to measure. I am pleased to announce that from December 2019 until December 2022 I have invested exactly £1500 a month and not a penny more or less which gives a grand total of…drumroll….£54000! I have got to admit that whenever I think of that total figure – I am amazed that I have managed to save so much money. The thought of saving £2000 a year would of seemed very difficult just over 8 years ago. I could barely save £100 a month back then. This is a big tick in the box for sure for the first success criteria.

Outcome: SUCCESS!


Success Criteria 2 – No Depriving myself along the way

Now this particular success criteria is much more subjective and relative than the last for sure. Deprivation and feeling deprived is very personal and I guess you will have to just take me at my word on this one for the most part and rely on my own judgement on it :D. For me, being deprived is not being able to spend money on things that bring me joy or that help negate life’s imperfections and frustrations. It is when money can be in essence used to lubricate everyday life in positive ways.

For me this includes spending money on all the essentials, good quality food, general house bills, fast Internet, some TV entertainment packages to things such as going out with friends and family, gifting, going on holidays and trips away, buying items that give me great practical benefit and experiences in of themselves. It includes not having to penny pinch all the time, not being worried about unexpected outgoings, not living so close to the bone that pay day matters and is watched closely. What it does not mean is buying fancy cars, brand name everything, status symbols, 5 star hotels etc. there is no keeping up with the joneses in any of this but if I want a new iPad (which I always have loved) then I will get one…once mine is 5 years old that is.

So the question is, has saving £1500 a month for three years straight caused me some noticeable deprivation along the way? The answer is a confident No, it really hasn’t. There are clearly some things I could have bought more of or when I had a more expensive month I may have had one or two less outings or forgone a purchase for a while longer but this is just a normal disciplined life and these scenarios will always be the case. There will always be financial constraints. The success criteria being met here for me is proven from the fact I never felt like me saving was holding me back. I still got to buy gifts, I still go to go to Amsterdam, Ireland, trips to London, Liverpool. Nottingham, Manchester, Blackpool etc. I got to buy a new iPad, smart watch, PS5 and other things that I wanted after careful deliberation on their value to me of course… The other big validation of this success criteria is the fact that at no point did my partner call me tight or even passively hint at it along the way 😂. This is therefore a tick in the box for sure.

Outcome: SUCCESS!


Success Criteria 3 – Able to withstand unexpected outgoings along the way with no selling of any investments

Onto the third and final success criteria and now everything rests on the result of this. Similar to the first criteria, this is very much black and white too. Was I able to manage unexpected outgoings along the way as proven by not needing to sell any of my existing investments at any point or take out any loans or use credit cards etc. Up until the last 6 months of this challenge, the answer to this was a resounding clear cut yes. I managed to get through unexpected outgoings that cropped up and never felt the need to watch my bank fearful of something coming out I didn’t expect pushing me into an overdraft or really needing to know when pay day actually was. The last six months however have been a different story which deserves its own little write up which will follow now.

Photo finish Ending


When it comes to surviving unexpected outgoings and not having to sell any of my investments during the last six months, it has not been so easy and plain sailing. I mentioned in a previous blog post about having a huge unexpected vets bill of in the end almost £4000. This was following on from the value of my crypto punt falling by 90% which I always knew could happen and it was an amount I could live without hence risking it in the first place. It turns out though that had I not risked that, I would not of had anywhere near as much of a rocky road towards the end of this challenge…

What made the last three months in particular so hard was that I had an unexpected car bill of £1000 and all this was happening at a time where I needed to spend money on Christmas, previously planned and booked trips away and things such as trips to the German market that we always go on. I did not want to deprive myself by stopping all these things completely but I had to do them in very carefully planned ways with micro budgets almost for each whilst cancelling others. I cut down the amount I spent on Christmas, I had more pre drinks at home on outings and I was even more selective when it come to food purchases. I stuck to many simple food due to cost reasons (beans on toast anyone?) I was really planning out what I would be eating for the next week at a low level at times and knowing when I’d need to buy the next thing. I had days and days that were zero spend days and I was even having to watch my bank account daily as I was within £17 of my overdraft at one point desperately waiting to be paid. I kept checking my bank to see if my pay had gone in yet, something I have been fortunate not to have had to do in a long time. 

Despite all of the above being hard at times, it was never lost on me during this time that what I was feeling was simply a sampling and revisiting of the past for me and was not at all like it would feel for those that didn’t have the possibility of selling investments to instantly solve acute problems. I was simply so almost desperate to complete the goal that I put myself through that willingly because I hoped it would make victory ever sweeter and I couldn’t bare the crypto punt ultimately costing me this goal.

Only two weeks ago, with only a matter of days before I would be able to invest the final £1500 – During this same time of being so close to the red, I was involved in a car crash. We were all safe which was the main thing of course but I was absolutely gutted at the thought of having to pay for the insurance excess at the very minimum of putting a claim in which would have come to £400. That was £400 I did not have. After cleaning up the damage to the front left hand side of my car, it did not seem quite as bad as it originally looked. It was indented with damage through to the black bumper plastic, it was heavily scuffed and was certainly noticeable and there was no doubt that It would cost way more than £400 to fix. I decided to get it looked at and checked to see if the car was road safe and mot passing safe which was the only thing that mattered to me now. The car was 11 years old, had some other battle wounds and I was willing to think of it as a cool scar for the sake of not letting it cost me success on Project 2235 :D. The car was found to be structurally and MOT safe, I could breath a huge sigh of relief…I therefore can say with pride that this success criteria indeed has a tick.

Outcome: SUCCESS!

Project 2235 – Achieved!!!


It feels so good to have achieved success in Project 2235. It feels like I can now ease off the gas slightly and enjoy the ride even more. I especially feel grateful to be able to share the journey with people like you who are along for the ride. Thanks for your support in the comments that you leave – feeling part of this FI community has made this all the more possible without a doubt.

Financial Update – £250,000???

So for those that want to know if I actually hit the £250,000 icing on the cake target and to see my actual numbers at the end of this. Here is my December update.

Financial Update – Dec 2022

The below figures are taken from the 22nd of December.

  • Monthly investment (Jul 22 to Dec 22) – £1500 each month 
  • Savings rate (Jun 22 – Dec 22)– 55% average each month
  • Investment portfolio – £226,310.82:(
  • Cash is King fund – £429.48
  • Crypto Punt – £0 (liquidated this, sore subject :D)
  • Emergency fund – £100
  • Big expenses / holiday fund – £0 (Cash is King now contains this category from now on)

Total Liquid Funds = £226,840 🙁 

As you can see from the graph above, Market conditions and the wind blowing against me during the past 6 months has meant that I unfortunately could not hit the £250,000 Target. It’s a shame but I know I will get to this eventually, it’s only a matter of time! It got so close to this figure last year as well with the highest I saw it being close to £247,000 – Almost briefly did it!

I have now also written off the crypto losses as I needed the money that I had left invested to use against unexpected outgoings. I have merged the big expenses fund into Cash is King as I won’t be separating the cash pots quite as much as I did in the past from now on.

Celebration time!


Despite it being a shame I couldn’t hit the major milestone of £250,000, it was now time to celebrate!

I knew it was partially against my control to hit that number and that the market would determine this as mentioned earlier. That’s why I set the investing of £54,000 and not depriving myself along the way whilst weathering the storms of the unexpected as the criteria for success. How did I celebrate this? Did I go to Dubai?, New York? Did I rent out an entire restaurant and wine and dine my closest friends and family…No, no I did not. What I did instead was commandeered a normal winter Liverpool trip to be partially about celebrating the achievement. It was in essence a souped up, push the boat out a little further Liverpool trip in a slightly nicer hotel.

On the night which I kind of loosely marked as the celebration night, we started off with some Asti Wine followed up by us going out to eat. We went to Byron Burger instead of our frequent spoons which has my favourite burger, sweet potato fries and onion rings (expensive but we were celebrating after all). We partied like we normally do but stayed out even longer. That was enough for me. It felt really sweet and then things carried on as normal – life goes on.

Post Project 2235 Begins…

I now officially start the journey of Post Project 2235. This phase will no doubt be made up of other projects, challenges and goals but for now the only FI Journey related goals and plans of mine are to lower my investments by half on average to ensure I can live the Gangster Monk lifestyle going forward and to continue to invest so that my current plan of being able to retire at no later than 50 should I choose is still achievable.

Thanks for reading my post :), I hope you all have a Great Christmas and a happy new year!

TFJ